For nearly four years, Big Sister Kellie has been a constant, encouraging presence in Little Sister Breanna’s life—and the impact of that steady support is felt in big, meaningful ways every single day.
From the very beginning of their match, Kellie showed a deep commitment to Breanna’s growth. She listens carefully, offers thoughtful guidance, and meets Breanna wherever she is. Whether that means cheering her on through new adventures or simply being there when life feels overwhelming. Kellie’s consistency is one of her greatest strengths. She shows up not just when it’s easy, but when it truly matters, ensuring Breanna always feels supported, valued, and cared for.
Growing Academically and Behaviorally
Kellie’s influence has played a significant role in Breanna’s academic and behavioral growth. Breanna enjoys school and excels in most of her classes, and Kellie has been right there, offering help and encouragement.
One major milestone came when Breanna decided to try theatre, something she likely would have avoided before her match with Kellie. With newfound confidence, Breanna stepped onto the stage, and Kellie couldn’t have been more excited. This willingness to try new things has positively shaped Breanna’s attitude toward school, extracurricular activities, and her future.
Behaviorally, Kellie leads by example, teaching Breanna the importance of persistence, kindness, and communication. Through their time together, Breanna has developed skills that will support her long after their match.
Building Confidence and Connection
Over the past four years, Kellie has had a powerful impact on Breanna’s social and emotional development. Early on, Breanna struggled with self-doubt and hesitation in social situations. Through Kellie’s consistent encouragement and calm guidance, Breanna learned to trust herself, embrace vulnerability, and build deeper connections with others.
One of Breanna’s favorite parts of being matched with Kellie is getting to know her world and spending time with Kellie’s partner, Grant, and meeting her friends and family. These experiences have helped Breanna feel included in a supportive, welcoming community.
Breanna’s grandmother, Melissa, shared that Breanna’s ability to handle stress, build trust, and navigate challenges has improved significantly. Kellie’s influence has helped Breanna grow into a more self-assured and emotionally intelligent young person.
Traditions That Mean Everything
Over the years, Kellie and Breanna have created traditions that Breanna looks forward to all year long. One of the most special is their annual end-of-summer trip to Kellie’s friend’s cabin before school starts. The day begins with breakfast, followed by fishing, fish tacos, golf cart rides, swimming, boating, and visits with donkeys and chickens. Sometimes, one of Breanna’s siblings even gets to join.
“She is mostly my Big Sister,” Breanna shared, “but I think all my siblings look at her like a Big Sister too.”
Around the holidays, they bake and frost cookies together and make packages to bring home to Breanna’s family. Whether they’re cooking, baking, or heading out on fun outings, Breanna says her favorite thing to do with Kellie is simply spending time together.
Words That Say It All
Breanna puts it best in her own words:
“She has always been so nice to me and very supportive of anything I do or say.”
“She told me that if you aren’t up for trying new things, you’ll be stuck in the same place, and that’s how she got me to try Thai food.”
“She is the best person I think I have ever met.”
“When Kellie and I met, I think we both knew we were going to go perfect together.”
Melissa, Breanna’s grandmother, echoes that sentiment. After gaining full custody of Breanna and her siblings following years of challenges, she credits Kellie with making a lasting difference.
“The words that come to mind when I describe Kellie are steadfast, encouraging, and consistent,” Melissa shared. “I could never imagine a day without her in our lives. She cares for every single one of us.”
A Match That Matters
Kellie Swanson’s dedication, consistency, and heart have helped shape Breanna’s journey in powerful ways. Their match is a beautiful reminder that showing up can change a young person’s life forever.
