When siblings Tamara and Titus first joined Big Brothers Big Sisters KC, they were looking for caring adult role models who could offer consistency and support. What they found in Cassie and Ross Chapman was so much more. Over the past two and a half years, this extraordinary Big Couple has become an extension of family—offering encouragement and guidance that has shaped the siblings’ lives in powerful ways.

Ross was first matched with Titus nearly three years ago, stepping in as a steady and positive male role model. Later, seeing the impact Ross was having (and the fun), Cassie was matched with Ross’s sister Tamara. From that point on, the four naturally grew into a close-knit unit, spending time together as a group. Whether cheering on achievements, helping with homework, or showing up for life’s big and small moments, Cassie and Ross never miss a chance to remind their Littles they are valued and supported.

“Cassie and Ross are not just mentors, they are family to Tamara and Titus,” said Match Support Specialist, Hazel Snyder. “They’ve created a foundation of stability, kindness, and unconditional encouragement.”

For both siblings, the impact has been profound. Before their match, Tamara and Titus struggled with self-confidence, especially in school. With their Bigs’ encouragement, they’ve grown more responsible, resilient, and motivated.

• Tamara has blossomed socially and emotionally. Once shy, she now speaks up and shares her dreams, knowing her Big Sister believes in her.
• Titus has found in Ross a positive male role model. Ross leads by example, showing him what it means to be a kind, reliable, and respectful man.

Together, Cassie and Ross have created a safe space where the siblings feel seen, heard, and empowered to reach their potential.

The impact of this match extends beyond the Littles themselves. Tamara and Titus’s grandmother, who is raising them, shared, “I don’t have enough words to express how grateful I am for Cassie and Ross. They’ve given my grandkids something I never thought possible—strong, stable adult role models who truly care. They are more than Bigs; they are part of our family now.”

Cassie and Ross’s commitment doesn’t stop at mentoring. They actively promote the mission of Big Brothers Big Sisters, encouraging others to get involved and supporting the program however they can. Their dedication to BBBSKC shines through in every aspect of their lives.

Tamara sums it up best: “Cassie and Ross are the best. They always listen to us, make us laugh, and help us believe in ourselves. We feel really lucky to have them in our lives because they don’t just say they care—they show it every day.”

Cassie and Ross Chapman embody everything a Big Couple can be: consistent, compassionate, and deeply invested in the lives of their Littles. They’ve shown Tamara and Titus that their dreams matter.